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Guilt Free - #267
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God forgives you and pardons your guilt, not because you’ve finally gotten your act together. It’s because He is faithful to His name.
When God forgives you, when He pardons your guilt, when He shows you mercy—it’s not because you’ve finally gotten your act together. It’s because He is faithful to His name. He has tied your salvation to His character. And that should give you incredible confidence. Because if your forgiveness depended on you, you’d lose it. I’d lose it. We’d all lose it. But it doesn’t. It rests on who God is.
Welcome to The Point of Purity Podcast. A powerful weekly study filled to the brim with the all the tools from Scripture you will ever need to build a lasting life of Biblical purity and godliness. I’m your host Steve Etner – author, Certified Professional Mentor TM and Purity Coach for The Pure Man Ministry and this is Episode #267 entitled “Guilt Free.”
In this week’s episode, we’re going after a question that, if you’re honest, has probably crossed your mind more than once: Why should God pardon my guilt? Why would a Holy, Righteous, Pure, Sovereign, Almighty God forgive someone like me?
I mean, think about it. We’ve all turned our backs on Him. Not once… not twice… but over and over again. We’ve chosen ourselves—“King Me”—instead of Him. We’ve chased temporary pleasure instead of the lasting joy He offers. So, the question is fair… why shouldn’t He turn His back on us?
David actually wrestles with this same reality. He says in Psalm 25:11, “For Your name’s sake, O LORD, pardon my guilt, for it is great.” I love the honesty there. He doesn’t minimize it. He doesn’t excuse it. He just lays it out—my guilt is great.
So let me ask you the same question. How great is your guilt before a holy God? Think about just today. How many times have you sinned? How many times have you chosen yourself over God? How many times have your thoughts, your words, your actions been driven by what you want instead of what He wants? Now stretch that out—this week… last week… this year… your lifetime. That’s a lot.
So again… why would God forgive you? Why would He pardon that kind of guilt? Here’s the answer—and it might surprise you a little bit. It’s not because of you. It’s because of Him. Over and over again in Scripture, God makes it clear that He acts for the sake of His name. In other words, His forgiveness, His mercy, His faithfulness—they’re rooted in His character, not your performance.
In 1 Samuel 12:22 God says He won’t abandon His people because of His great name. He saves, He leads, He guides—not because we deserve it, but because He is committed to displaying who He is. Even when He deals with our sin, He says He does it not according to our evil ways, but for the sake of His name.
Psalm 106:8 says, “Yet [God] saved [you] for his name’s sake, that he might make known his mighty power.” In Psalm 31:3 we read; Truly God is “my rock and my fortress; for (His) name’s sake (He) will lead me and guide me.” God says in Ezekiel 20:44 “And you shall know that I am the Lord, when I deal with you for my name’s sake, not according to your evil ways, nor according to your corrupt deeds.”
Now, some people might push back and say, “Well, that was written to Israel in the Old Testament. That’s not really about me.” But Scripture actually addresses that too. We’re told that what was written in the past was written for our instruction—to give us hope (Romans 15:4). And we’re also told that those things in the Old Testament were recorded as examples for us today (1 Corinthians 10:11).
So yes, those passages were written to Israel—but they absolutely speak into your life as a follower of Christ today. Because if you’ve placed your faith in Jesus, everything changes. You’ve been given new life—a living hope. You’ve been brought into something eternal, something secure, something God Himself is guarding (1 Peter 1:-5). You’re not who you used to be.
Ephesians 2:10 says you are His workmanship—created with purpose. It says you are chosen, set apart, belonging to Him. It says you’ve been brought out of darkness into light. It says you’ve been rescued from the domain of darkness and transferred into the kingdom of His Son.
Think about that. You were once in darkness… now you’re light. You were once enslaved to sin… now you’re free. You were once far from God… now you belong to Him. And all of that—every bit of it—happened because of what Jesus did for you. He gave Himself to redeem you, to cleanse you, to make you His own.
So when God forgives you, when He pardons your guilt, when He shows you mercy—it’s not because you’ve finally gotten your act together. It’s because He is faithful to His name. He has tied your salvation to His character. And that should give you incredible confidence. Because if your forgiveness depended on you, you’d lose it. I’d lose it. We’d all lose it. But it doesn’t. It rests on who God is.
So when you read passages where God says He acts not according to your sin, but for the sake of His name—you can take that personally. That’s not just history… that’s hope. That’s your story. And that means even in your struggle, even in your guilt, even when you feel like you’ve messed up again—God is still at work… not because of you, but because of Him. And that changes everything.
I want you to listen closely to these words from Psalm 25:11. Don’t rush past them. Let them settle into your heart for a moment: “For your name’s sake, O LORD, pardon my guilt, for it is great.” Let me read that again, because we need to feel the weight of it: “For your name’s sake, O LORD, pardon my guilt, for it is great” (Psalm 25:11).
David doesn’t come to God pretending his guilt is small. He doesn’t minimize it. He doesn’t excuse it. He doesn’t say, “Lord, pardon my guilt, because I had a rough week,” or “pardon my guilt, because I’m really trying hard,” or “pardon my guilt, because compared to other people I’m not that bad.” No. He says, “Pardon my guilt, for it is great.”
Can you say that honestly? Can I? Think for a moment about your guilt before our Righteous and Holy God. Think about the selfish choices, the hidden thoughts, the private compromises, the King Me moments where you chose yourself over God. Think about how many times you and I have been guilty of worshiping a false god—not a statue made of wood or stone, but the idol of self. My wants. My desires. My comfort. My pleasure. My way.
Scripture tells us that sin entered the world through one man, and death through sin (Romans 5:12). It tells us that the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23). Jesus also speaks of eternal punishment for those separated from Him (Matthew 25:46). So let’s not soften this. Sin is not a small thing. Guilt before a holy God is not a light thing.
Now hold that thought in your mind and listen to Jeremiah 14:7: “Though our iniquities testify against us, act, O LORD, for your name’s sake; for our backslidings are many; we have sinned against you.” That is such an honest prayer. Jeremiah says, “Lord, our sins are standing as witnesses against us. Our rebellion is obvious. Our backslidings are many. We have sinned against You.” But then he says, “Act, O LORD, for Your name’s sake.”
That’s the hope. Our sins testify against us, but God’s name testifies louder. Our guilt is great, but His mercy is greater. Our rebellion is real, but His faithfulness is deeper still. This is why 1 John 1:9 is such a precious promise: “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” Notice that. He is faithful and just. Not reluctant. Not annoyed. Not barely willing. Faithful and just.
Psalm 32:5 says, “I acknowledged my sin to you, and I did not cover my iniquity; I said, ‘I will confess my transgressions to the LORD,’ and you forgave the iniquity of my sin.” That’s what God does when we stop hiding, stop pretending, stop defending ourselves, and come honestly before Him. He forgives. David knew this. That’s why in Psalm 51:2–3 he cries, “Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin! For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me.”
Have you ever felt that? “My sin is ever before me.” You can’t shake it. You can’t outrun it. You can’t pretend it didn’t happen. It’s there. It weighs on you. It follows you into bed at night and greets you when you wake up in the morning. But God says in Jeremiah 33:8, “I will cleanse them from all the guilt of their sin against me, and I will forgive all the guilt of their sin and rebellion against me.” All the guilt. All the sin. All the rebellion. That’s not shallow forgiveness. That’s not a quick religious bandage. That is deep, cleansing, soul-restoring mercy.
Do you remember Psalm 25:1? “To you, O LORD, I lift up my soul.” We’ve talked about that before—the daily choice to lift your soul to God instead of handing it over to King Me. And when you lift your soul to Him, Psalm 23:3 says, “He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.” There it is again: for His name’s sake.
Psalm 31:3 says, “For you are my rock and my fortress; and for your name’s sake you lead me and guide me.” Are you hearing the recurring theme? God pardons for His name’s sake. He restores for His name’s sake. He leads for His name’s sake. He guides for His name’s sake. Everything God does is rooted in who He is.
If you have placed your faith in the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ as the full and final payment for your sin, then God has rescued you. He has redeemed you. He has restored you into a right relationship with Him. And even now, He is leading you, teaching you, guiding you, and showing you how to walk in freedom and victory.
But why? Not because you earned it. Not because you deserved it. Not because you finally became impressive enough for God to say, “Okay, now I can work with you.” No. He does it for His name’s sake. Because He is your Rescuer. He is your Redeemer. He is your Restorer. He is your Shepherd, your Guide, your Teacher, your Savior. This is not just what He does. This is who He is.
Now listen carefully to Ezekiel 20:44: “You will know that I am the LORD, when I have dealt with you for my name’s sake, not according to your evil ways or according to your corrupt deeds.” We need to pause there.
God says He does not deal with His people according to what their evil ways deserve. He deals with them for His name’s sake. That is stunning. Because let’s be honest. What do our evil ways deserve? What do our corrupt deeds deserve? Every time we choose King Me over God, every time we make life about ourselves, every time we chase our desires instead of surrendering to His will, we are guilty. We have sinned. We have committed idolatry of the heart.
And Romans 6:23 reminds us that the wages of sin is death. That means the paycheck sin earns is separation from God. Judgment. Wrath. Hell. That is what sin deserves. That is why we desperately need divine intervention. We don’t need a little encouragement. We don’t need a spiritual tune-up. We need rescue.
So listen again to Ezekiel 20:44: “You will know that I am the LORD, when I have dealt with you for my name’s sake, not according to your evil ways or according to your corrupt deeds.” My friend, that is mercy. God does not deal with His children according to what their sin deserves. He deals with them according to who He is.
So let me ask you something very directly. Do you know Christ as your Lord and Savior? Have you placed your faith in His sacrificial death on the cross? Do you believe that Jesus willingly took your place, your penalty, your punishment? Do you believe that He bore the wrath of God for your sin—not because of anything He had done, but because of everything you and I have done? Do you believe He paid the full price? And do you believe He rose from the dead, that He is alive today, seated at the right hand of the Father, not only as your Redeemer but also as your Intercessor?
If you are a born-again believer, then hear this clearly: the King of kings and Lord of lords, the holy and sovereign Creator of the universe, has chosen to deal with you not according to what you deserve, but according to who He is. Not according to your sin. Not according to your failure. Not according to your shame. Not according to your corrupt deeds. But according to His name.
Psalm 103:10–14 says it beautifully: “He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities.” It goes on to say that as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His steadfast love toward those who fear Him. As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us. Like a father showing compassion to his children, the Lord shows compassion to those who fear Him, because He knows our frame and remembers that we are dust.
That should humble us. That should break us. And that should move us to worship. God knows exactly what we are. And still, in Christ, He forgives. He restores. He leads. He keeps. I cannot drive this point home strongly enough: everything God does is for His name’s sake. His holy name. His glory. His character. His purpose. His fame.
And listen, God taking the glory is not selfish. It is not prideful. It is not God trying to take something away from you. God takes the glory because He alone deserves it—and because you and I cannot handle it. When I take the glory, I turn inward. I start worshiping King Me. I start believing I am the hero of the story. But when God gets the glory, everything is put back in its proper place.
He is God. I am not. He saves. I receive. He restores. I worship. He leads. I follow.
So today, don’t run from God because your guilt is great. Run to Him because His mercy is greater. Cry out with David: “For your name’s sake, O LORD, pardon my guilt, for it is great” (Psalm 25:11). And then rest in this beautiful truth: “Your sins are forgiven for his name’s sake” (1 John 2:12).
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